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Fully Five Newsletter Issue #056 Your outburst was actually accurate ↓ When I was a teenager, I punched a hole in my parents' basement wall. Over my sister wanting to paint her room. I don't even remember what specifically set me off. I just remember standing there afterward, staring at the drywall, thinking, "That wasn't supposed to happen." I covered it with a little sign that said "Drat!" and left it there for over a decade. This is the contradiction most Fives live inside. We tell...
Fully Five Newsletter Issue #055 What if “no” is what’s draining you? ↓ I said no to freeze tag. A while back, my kids had dragged me outside, begging me to play. Just one game. Ten minutes. And I wasn’t busy. Not really. But I genuinely believed I couldn’t afford it. Like every yes I gave away was one less unit of energy I’d have for the things I needed to do. So I said no. And it killed me quietly. Because I wanted to play. I really wanted to. But I said no because I believed I’d already...
Fully Five Newsletter Issue #054 Why your days feel like they disappear ↓ Some days vanish like I blacked out. I sit down "for a minute," open a tab, follow a thread, solve a problem, build a model in my head. It all feels clean and satisfying in that Five way. Then I look up and it’s dark outside. Not because I was scrolling mindlessly. Because I was locked in. And the feeling that hits isn’t just, "I’m behind." It’s, "Why do I feel like I got hit by a truck?" Today we’re talking about why...